Since my mom has been here I am able to see that
there is a lot of stress relieved from everyone in this house but, most
defiantly my mother. The day that my brother and I picked my mother up from the
shelter, you can see my mom was just happy and stress free and you could
actually see the joy in my mom’s face. Reason that is because she no longer had
to worry about where she is going to be living at next and what’s the next
shelter she’s going to be living at. who wouldn’t be happy and getting ready to
go to a more stable environment.
We were most defiantly happy that my mom was coming to
live us. Since my mother has come to live with us it was probably the best
thing that could ever happened. I say that because now we are able to spend
more time with her on the daily basis and don’t have to worry about driving back
and forth to Maryland just to see her 1 to 2 times a week.
It has been about one or two weeks since my mother
has moved in with us at my father’s house. To me, it doesn’t really bother me
but on the other hand it’s really awkward and weird. The reason that I say it doesn’t
really bother me at all is because I have gotten use to my mother and father
being around each other in the last couple of weeks but not exactly in the same
place. My mother would be in one part of the house and my father would be in
another part of the house. It’s almost as though they still keep their distance
from each other.
The reason it’s really awkward and weird for me is
because I never grew up in a home with both my mother and father. It is almost
as the cycle has reversed. I didn’t grow up with two parents in a household
but, now since I’m older I have two parents in one household. Maybe it just
takes time getting use to.
What an interesting dynamic you point out in this week's post. You do have a parental situation "in the reverse" here. I wonder: is your dad planning on putting any stipulations or rules on your mom's staying in the house? Is this the "honeymoon" period when everyone gets along?
ReplyDeleteAnd what signs visually show you that someone is "stress free"? Connect this to research on stress indicators. That would be a great bit of analysis.