It really bothers me that till this day
my mother is still homeless. My mother lives in a homeless shelter in Maryland.
This was the only shelter that she could find a spot in that the Veterans
office in D.C. could get her in just for temporarily. My mother has been living
in this shelter for about four months and to me it seems like it has been
forever. Now, her time being at the home shelter is coming to an end in about
two more weeks.
I
remembered the date like it was yesterday November 27, 2011. That was the day
that my brother and I dropped my mother off at the homeless shelter for the
first time ever and it broke my heart completely. I never thought I’d have to
witness my mother living in a shelter. The only good thing about my mother
living in a shelter is that she had roof over her head and is not living in the
streets, which is a complete blessing.
The sad part about it was that it had
been the first that my mother and I had ever been apart from each other and I
knew it was going to kill my mom just as much as it was killing me. I felt like
a part of me was being taken away that’s how close my mother and I are. It was
tough for me not being around my mom every day and not being able to see her
like I was use to seeing her. I rarely ever get to see my mother now. I only
see her about twice every two weeks or if that.
When I do get to see my mother we try to
spend as much time as week can with each other. But I do know greater days will
come and my mother will eventually get back on her feet and start taking care
of business because I know that she hates being away from us all the time when
she used to be around us every single minute of the day. She tells me this all
the time.
This is your best post yet: you are detailed, honest, and direct. I know this has to be an excruciating time for you, as I cannot imagine a child who would want to witness this happen to her mother.
ReplyDeleteWhat do you think is the root cause of your mother's homelessness? Consult social working journals and those focused on mental health and psychology. Is anybody writing about these issues so that families, like yours, can help your mother get back on her feet?